“You Can Not Blame This on Black Parents”
Every time there is a discussion about why African American High School Students are not making the grade, one of the first things said is, “It is because the parents are not doing their job.” This means the teachers and educators are not supposed to raise our young people. I agree with the later, teachers are not to raise our children, but they are supposed to educate them. To me, education is the process of learning. Learning includes teaching right and wrong, good and bad and how young men and women are expected to act a part of society. When teachers finish doing all of this, have not they helped to raise their students? The people who say it is the parents fault are the ones who do not recognize themselves as parents. When I was a young man, everyone acted like a parent, from uncles and aunts to friends and neighbors to the lady who lived down the street and knew your parents before you were born. All these people had the right to discipline you because they had an investment in our communities and how you turned out.
I just left a meeting of the Atkins High School Advisory Board. This group of civic leaders was organized to insure the success of the new of the new High School located of Old Greensboro Road. Most of this board are graduates of the old Atkins High School and have a vested interest in the well being of the student who attend this school. Of the fifteen to twenty-five members of this Board, there were three to five members of the board in attendance. All the other attendees were associated with the Board of Education or a Commercial Enterprise. Very important people from the White Community were there. People who make important decisions about the future of Winston-Salem/Forsyth County. Men and women who run large Corporations and multi-million dollar businesses. Employers who understand how important an educated workforce is to the success of their business ventures. People who obviously care more about our children than we do. This is a voluntary assignment for those of us who serve on the Advisory Board. The people and civic organizations who have agreed to participate supposedly did it out of a commitment to better education opportunities for our children.
When less than five people show up to this kind of meeting, it reflects badly on the African American Community. It is an embarrassment that African Americans who understand how important the education of our children is to our success as a people find excuses for not attending these meetings. All of us, Black, White and Brown, have to find the time to do something about this corrupt and unfair education system. Is all we want to do is stand up at public meetings and compliant about how it is the parent fault that our children are not being educated? Do we believe because my children attend a private or majority high school, that minority student low graduation rate is not a concern? For those of you who simply do not care about educating all students, it cost more to incarcerate than to educate. The Bible says to whom much is given, much is required, and educating our children requires all of us. We cannot blame Black Parents for this one. Neither can we blame this on the White Man; this is a complete failure of African American Leadership. The message we have sent is this, “we as a people do not care about what happens to our children’s education, as long as we can find someone other than ourselves to blame.” It is like I said, if I were a White Civic Leader, Businessman, Education Administrator, College Executive, Member of the Chamber or just Joe Blow, the only conclusion I would leave this meeting with is they (black people) just do not care or do not understand how important the education of their children is to the success of their race. And if they (African Americans) do not care, why should I?
I just left a meeting of the Atkins High School Advisory Board. This group of civic leaders was organized to insure the success of the new of the new High School located of Old Greensboro Road. Most of this board are graduates of the old Atkins High School and have a vested interest in the well being of the student who attend this school. Of the fifteen to twenty-five members of this Board, there were three to five members of the board in attendance. All the other attendees were associated with the Board of Education or a Commercial Enterprise. Very important people from the White Community were there. People who make important decisions about the future of Winston-Salem/Forsyth County. Men and women who run large Corporations and multi-million dollar businesses. Employers who understand how important an educated workforce is to the success of their business ventures. People who obviously care more about our children than we do. This is a voluntary assignment for those of us who serve on the Advisory Board. The people and civic organizations who have agreed to participate supposedly did it out of a commitment to better education opportunities for our children.
When less than five people show up to this kind of meeting, it reflects badly on the African American Community. It is an embarrassment that African Americans who understand how important the education of our children is to our success as a people find excuses for not attending these meetings. All of us, Black, White and Brown, have to find the time to do something about this corrupt and unfair education system. Is all we want to do is stand up at public meetings and compliant about how it is the parent fault that our children are not being educated? Do we believe because my children attend a private or majority high school, that minority student low graduation rate is not a concern? For those of you who simply do not care about educating all students, it cost more to incarcerate than to educate. The Bible says to whom much is given, much is required, and educating our children requires all of us. We cannot blame Black Parents for this one. Neither can we blame this on the White Man; this is a complete failure of African American Leadership. The message we have sent is this, “we as a people do not care about what happens to our children’s education, as long as we can find someone other than ourselves to blame.” It is like I said, if I were a White Civic Leader, Businessman, Education Administrator, College Executive, Member of the Chamber or just Joe Blow, the only conclusion I would leave this meeting with is they (black people) just do not care or do not understand how important the education of their children is to the success of their race. And if they (African Americans) do not care, why should I?